







Have you noticed something new? Last week, just before I left for Alt Summit, Chris implemented my redesign. It's been about nine months in the works, percolating in my brain for at least a year. Last year I wanted to implement a new design, but I knew I'd be back to square one if I rushed the rebrand at all. And I was right. I wanted to make sure I took enough time and thought about each step thoroughly.

I refer to my blog as I Still Love You - my place to do the things I still love even when the chaos of motherhood is in full swing (like right now - we all have the stomach flu). It would be perfect to have istillloveyou.com for that very purpose. But the insert explicative noun who own and are still trying to sell istillloveyou.com were looking for $15,000 for the domain. I gave them the middle finger. Frustrated, I decided that I needed to go another direction.
Ultimately we decided that it was more cost effective to stick with the current domain but restructure a bit. I am embracing my URL as melissaesplin.com, but "I still love you" is (and always will be) my personal motto, and a motto that I hope many of you will adopt as well. The reason why I have a blog isn't for $$$ (although being able to bring in extra income is nothing short of a blessing), but it's to share my creative process with others and to keep in tact the creative person I was before diapers and drool came to the scene.
Trying to nail down my style was like trying to hit a moving target with a bow and arrow, having never shot a bow and arrow before. This is not a niche blog about any one theme, unless you consider that one theme the entire umbrella of creativity.
I love trends old and new, but I didn't want my blog to feel outdated the second it went live. So I opted for a plainer canvas than I've done in the past. I don't mind the orange and pink from days of yore, but it was getting old, and it was too girly. Each year we will be changing up the theme's main color for the Pantone color of the year. After I broke down the elements of my own personal style, it made a theme so much easier to work on:
I wanted the site to be the kind that was welcoming to all people and easy to use. I'm hoping it comes across as such. The biggest priority we had was to find new ways to dredge up old content. I've been blogging for 5 1/2 years now, that's a lot of old content! Here are a few things that are new to the site:
The build was a lot of work on Chris's end. I keep saying that this design (between mine and Chris's billable rates) would have cost in the $6000 range. It was A LOT of work.
But it feels so good to have it complete. I do hope you take a look around and take advantage of the new features. Be sure to send a shout out if something doesn't look right. I really appreciate the feedback.
I'm not sure if this post is for me, for beginning Pinterest users or for my co-horts (not sure how many of my fellow blog friends actually read this) but I figure it's good to get this off my chest and get my personal feelings out there on the matter. Feel free to chime in on the conversation in the comments below.
WHAT DO I PIN?
There were (and still are) a lot of mixed feelings about Pinterest when some terms of service changed, begging the question: What should be pinned to Pinterest? For me personally, I keep it to original sources only. DIY blogs, food blogs and shops are pretty easy ones. I also pin from fashion and interior blogs but only when the author of the blog publishes original content. For example, I'll pin an interior that someone has styled and photographed themselves as opposed to the interior images they used for inspiration.
I never pin from tumblr, google images or stock photography sites.
HOW DO I PIN?
This is a dumb question, I know. But some people may not necessarily think about this so I feel it's worth mentioning. I pin directly from permalinks - I click through to the single blog post or product page, then pin what it is I want. Pinning from the main page of a blog is really annoying - content always shuffles on that front page, so you'll never be able to get directly to that blog post after new content appears.
If I'm re-pinning from peeps I follow, I'll quickly click through the link to make sure proper attribution has been given. If re-pinning a recipe from Pinterest, wouldn't you click through the link to make sure that the site is still working and the recipe is worth making? I treat all other pins the same way. Especially with art and design.
I also pin with descriptive language. I want people to be able to find the same awesome things that I'm pinning, so I make the image searchable with key terms. I also like to write little notes to myself about what made me pin the image in the first place. I never pin full tutorial instructions in the comments. It's just plain annoying and just like stealing the content from that site or blog.
HOW DO I ENCOURAGE PINNING?
This is kind of a funny thing. I'm getting more into this now. Pinterest is a great way to get your content out there, but I say this with hesitation. I don't like following pinners that are self-promoting all the time, so I try not to. I've not done a great job of this recently, but I'm working on striking a good balance.
After much thought I've decided that if I'm going to be pinning my own work, I should be pinning to boards marked for self-promotion. I feel like this works in my favor two ways: 1) It clearly tells my followers that this is something of mine, I'm not sneaky about promoting my work. 2) It's a great way to aggregate all of the stuff that I've done in one spot. It's easy for people to find what they're looking for and to repin as they see fit.

The plan was to make something that had a nice flow and drape to it for the Friday night parties at Alt Summit, but something that was comfortable and breathable for dancing and running around. I feel like this strikes both fancy and wearable arenas.
I had originally thought about doing some kind of easy elastic waistband to keep the construction simple, but if I really wanted to do it right, I needed a real waistband with an invisible zipper. That also scared the bejeebers out of me as I've only put in one invisible zipper in and it was while being heavily supervised by my amazing sewing friend. I used the same chiffon fabric for the waistband, but I interfaced both sides of the waistband for structure. I'm glad I did both sides instead of just the one.
Since the fabric was so cheer, I cut out two layers, unfortunately I didn't have enough for two full-length layers so the bottom layer hits just below knee length. I feel like it would've been better full-length, but it still has a nice effect. Additionally, the two layers together still aren't opaque enough to hide my underwear, so I whipped up a wiggle skirt out of nude swimsuit lining. It's just enough opacity to do the trick, but not to add any extra weight.
I can see the little flaws that make it look home made, but I'm hoping that others won't when I wear it to the mini parties. I've also realized that I don't have a top that goes really well with this skirt. I need a cropped or peplum top. We'll see if I can whip one up in time for the conference.
This week is crazy busy, but I have so many things I want to share with you before I go MIA for the weekend. Oh how I wish there were more hours in the day!
Outfit Details:
Construct your pattern on paper. I used a curved ruler to make the round shape. Lay the pattern on top of your fabric and weigh it down with weights. Cut your material. If you're doing sheer material like mine, two pieces for each layer you want to include. Interface your waist fabric with fusible interfacing.
Sew one side of your skirt together. I serged these two layers together.
If you're using a sheer or loose weave material, you'll want to serge, zig zag or hem the two open ends seperately so your skirt won't fray. You'll also want to stay-stitch your waist (a baste stitch all the way around the waist, just shy of your seam allowance).
Pin the waistband to the skirt, right sides together.
Insert your zipper below your waistband. You can follow instructions on your zipper or check out this tutorial for invisible zipper insertion.
Sew the rest of the skirt, right sides together. Fold your waistband down about 1/2 inch, then fold in half to meet the original seam, making sure the raw edge of that original waist seam (and ends) will be encased. Sew the waist band down. I pinned the waistband, then sewed along the right side of the waistband so I could get a perfect top stitch. Add a clasp or button for the waistband. Hem the edge of your skirt using a baby hem and you're done!
I took one of my favorite shirt patterns (this is really the second time I've made a banksia top, but I wear my first one practically every other day), and altered it in the back to fit my style. I made room for the yoke and back pleat. I also had to take in the front piece a little (ditched the darts, too) to keep it looking form-flattering.
You can see the back is constructed of two pieces. I sorta wish I had made the back with a more pronounced pleat, but I like it all the same.
It's a pretty dramatic high-low here, but I like that I can wear it with my leggings and it'll cover my bum. Chris and Eric (brother-in-law who's living with us right now) call it the CYA shirt . . . you know, cover your ___. I'm not sure Chris is as jazzed about the style of this shirt as I am, but that's okay. I only dress to impress my girlfriends these days anyway.
I like how I can pair this top with a belt or leave it loose. I'm still trying to decide how I'll style it for alt (likely there will be a sweater in the mix).
Outfit Details:
When asked to participate in Mim and Miranda's knit series (specifically the color block part), I immediately thought of these shoes. They've been circulating the interwebs recently, and I haven't been able to get them out of my head. So I thought I would translate those shoes to a skirt.
I told Chris this was my business in front, party in back skirt.
We're only doing it on one side, and we're doing it with stretchy knit so it's a lot more forgiving than you might think. Here's how you can make your own:
You'll need a stretchy base knit, something that has 40-60% stretch. The gold knit you'll just grab some gold lame or swim material. It's got good structure and stretch. You'll also need pencil, large paper, scissors, seam ripper, pins, ruler and a sewing machine.
Make your measurements. Measure where you want your skirt to sit along your waist, measure your rise (distance between waist and hips), hips and skirt length.
Draft up a quick pattern using the above measurements. This is for 1/4th of your skirt. Since you're using a stretchy material, we won't worry about seam allowance.
Now we'll cut out the material. It's best to lay it out on the ground and weigh the pattern down on the fabric with bowls, cups and other weighty objects. Cut out with scissors or rotary cutter. Cut your gold piece just a little bit bigger than the bottom of your skirt.
Take one skirt piece aside and lay it on the ground right side up. Lay the gold fabric right side up about 3/4 inches below the hem. Grab your ruler, lay it down and cut through both layers.
Now you have your two pattern pieces cut at the exact same angle! Ready for piecing.
Lay the pieces right sides together, and stitch. Iron seam flat with a cool iron.
Line up front and back pieces right sides together and sew, using a 1/2 - 5/8 inch seam allowance.
Finish the hems: Roll hem with a serger, cover stitch, zig zag or double-stitch your top and bottom hems. Be sure to use a stitch that allows for stretch!!
Outfit details:
The poor fit and the puffy sleeves combined made me look like I was about to break into song, "I am 16, going on 17. . ." Yikes! I'm not particularly awesome with sleeves, but I thought I would give it a shot. The puffy sleeves provided more than enough fabric for the sleeves I reconstructed. And if I failed, I could at least finish the arm holes nicely and wear it with cardigans.
And the sleeves worked! I'm so excited with how it turned out. It looks and feels so much better. Here's how I did it:
It doesn't look like much of a change, but it took forever and feels completely different! Another piece crossed off my list for my Alt Summit wardrobe.
Outfit details:
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Then Celeste was telling me about her plans for her master bedroom ideas to incorporate purple. It's really a lovely color that gets the boot all too often for it's bad rep of being a tween girl color. It can be so much more than that.
So I made her a pillow. I couldn't resist, and I think it turned out lovely. The pictures show the leather being more blue than it actually looks like. I'm hoping it'll work for her decor.
I used a pre-quilted broadcloth (similar) I found in my mom's stash of sewing goodies she gave me a few years ago. It has a natural feel to it with little flecks of fibers here and there. I'm not sure what my mom had originally planned for the fabric, but it works perfectly for this purpose. I cut out the quilted broadcloth and leather, then made a straight cut around the 3/4 mark on the front piece and that's where I added the two strips. I made the gold strip smaller than the purple one to balance out the glam and natural details. I used a leather needle here, but since I was sewing the leather to fabric, I didn't use my walking foot. I just made sure to sew leather-side-down when attaching pieces together.
I topstitched the fabric side of the piecing to give it a crisp look, but felt no need to do that on the leather sides. I did press the leather, which makes it look really sharp. When pressing leather, you'll want to cover with a pressing cloth (cotton sheet works fine) with the iron on med-high with low steam.
This kind of project is perfect for small leather scraps. Instead of piecing, you could applique! Leather edges don't need to be finished. Have you ever pieced with leather before?
Here are some great envelope pillow tutorials: Envelope Pillow • Hidden Zipper Pillow
I had some leggings that were getting threadbare, but I really liked the rise and the fit, so I sacrificed them for the pattern. I simply cut carefully along the seams and laid it out flat. Since cutting out the pattern, I no longer had seam allowances. I didn't want to manually measure all of my seam allowances so I made up this little trick. I'm sure it's been used before, but maybe you can benefit from my funny little discovery?
Tape three pencils together, keeping the middle one higher than the other two. It's just 1/16 shy of 5/8 inches. Not shabby. Not shabby at all.
I sewed everything in a slightly different order than the leggings that I made for Felix, and I like how it went. It was a bit easier:
These leggings feel like pajamas. You'll definitely see me sporting these at Alt Summit this year. And here are some legging tutorials if you're interested in making your own: Baby Leggings Tutorial & Pattern • Basic Leggings •Printed Leggings • Ruffle Bum Leggings • Ruched Leggings • Making Leggings
I revamped a beautiful coat to fit in the 21st century, I made stamps out of leather, Felix loves his new leggings and I lengthened a dress with the powers of colorblocking.
I wrote a few thank yous, I finally launched my online calligraphy workshop, I sewed a few neat outfits for Penelope and I refashioned a reversible maternity/nursing top.
I made a tote bag out of a pillow case, I finally shared how to color block leather, I started the zero budget project and I painted magnets.
I refashioned trousers into a skirt, I refashioned trousers into a skirt again, I designed a pretty bag and I made a high-low skirt.
I finally settled on a color for the dresser, I upholstered some stools, Penelope loves her cosby sweater and I can't resist the combination of bows and leather.
Now looking forward. . .
Things may be quiet on the surface around here, but there are a lot of things going on behind the scenes. I'm just polishing off a rebrand (6 months in the works) that Chris now has the daunting task of coding. The new look will highlight content more and you'll be able to find old content easier. I'll talk about the restructuring later.
I'm also feverishly working on completing this year's Alt Summit Business cards, several items of clothing (each outfit at Alt will have one or more handmade item in the mix - ambitious, I know) and a few side projects for friends. Chris gave me a serger for Christmas (!!!) which will make a few of those projects much easier. Over the break, I learned to use my mother-in-law's coverstitch machine and I'm completely hooked. I believe my handmade wardrobe just got dialed up a notch.